Since I have stopped smoking it has become increasingly difficult for me to find women who smoke to be attractive. It turns me off like never before and maybe you know what I am talking about. In fact I have one friend who’s a such a stickler against smoking he beliefs it’s a character flaw and a weakness in [...]

There are some addictions that are so common you may believe they are normal like drinking coffee or for some people smoking a cigarette. I was probably 12 years old when I tried my hand at smoking one of my mother’s cigarettes. She’s since quit about 20 years ago before my sister was born. And [...]

When you meet a woman for the first time it’s very important you make it clear to her that you are NOT like all the other guys. More specifically you want her to know you are a man and not a wussy. It still surprises me how androgynous most men behave towards women they meet. [...]

Received the following email the other day…
Hi Ramon, my girlfriend of 1 and half years recently broke up with me. We lived together and she decided that she wanted to move out because she didn’t feel the same way about me as she did before. I feel as though my life has ended. I really [...]

NEW YORK — Clad in a black leather motorcycle jacket with red racing stripes, he stood at 5’6”, with his hair in a textured faux hawk and a wispy mustache and goatee at the bottom of his boyish face. This was the Asian playboy.
Self-described as the “Asian Hitch” and a “hard ass drill sergeant of [...]