As a Dating Coach and blogger I keep up with what other dating experts are saying. One of my favourites is a guy called Evan Marc Katz, who wrote two books: I Can’t Believe I’m Buying This Book and Why You’re Still Single. Anyway he makes a very good argument why December is in fact a good time to start new relationships because people are not in work mode. And so even though all he says is true I’m going to go with an opposing view from my favourite radio jock, Tom Leykis: DTB for the holidays.

According to Tom women want to have a guy around during major holidays like Christmas, New Year, Valentine’s Day or birthdays. Even if you’ve been with a booty call for a while this is the time to dump her and move on. He says further, “You’ll save yourself the money that would have been spent buying her a present, and there’s a lot of lonely chicks out there who want to be with somebody–anybody. Women want to feel feel validated on the holidays, so they go out on a hunt to find the sucker to buy her presents. Your appeal will be much higher as a man during these times. Sticking around with a girl during these times plants long-term thoughts in her head. You don’t want that for a booty call.”

You see most people are in relationships because its just a dependency under another name. They can’t stand to be alone. In fact they probably can’t stand to be with themselves and relationships serve as a useful distraction to dealing with your own insecurities. So in one way this recommendation is to get you out of this convenience or laziness fix that most people suffer from in the world.

December is the perfect time to meet new women. For example, in a major city like Johannesburg, many people will go to Cape Town or Durban for the holidays. And the women who will be staying around will be the ones who are really feel the pinch. And this is the time to go out to bars and coffee shops (not so much clubs). And just take it easy and hang out. You will find that many of these women in these places are ripe for the picking.

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